Forgiven Redeemed Restored

True Love by Phil Wickham

This is how much Jesus loves you.  He did all this for you.  

Disconnect to Reconnect to Life

The Cross

King of my life I crown You now 

You're the ruler of my heart 

I will wear it loud 

I will tell the whole world about You 

You died in my place 

You suffered all for me 

Just so I could live 

You were broken and bruised 

And I will tell the whole world about You 

The cross, stained by blood 

The beauty of the cross 

Healing for the lost 

The cross, stained by blood 

The beauty of the cross 

Healing for the lost 

The cross 

King of my life I crown You now 

You're the healer I've longed for 

Now of heaven I'm sure 

And I will tell the whole world about You 

Thorns on Your brow 

Stripes on Your back 

So innocent, You did it all for me 

Nails in Your hands 

Nails in Your feet 

Sword in Your side, You did it all for me 

You paid the cost 

Thats the beauty of the cross 

~Crystal Lewis, The Beauty of the Cross

I Dare You

Last week my husband and I were talking about how much of life gets totally wasted on technology, whether staring at a computer screen, an i-something or another or a droid something or another, phone or tablet.  This week, we kind of forgot that talk because we were hit with the stomach plague over the weekend, so it was easy to just pick up the phone and play games, scroll social media, and do mindless things.  Now, when recovering from the plague, it's hard to think too much, so reading a book was out of the question because our minds could not hold a thought for too long.   We tried to do some house cleaning, but were worn out after taking a few steps across the floor, so we didn't move too far from the couch on our day of recovery.  However, we could have played a real card or board game instead of playing games on the phone.  We talked about it again tonight and are going to make some changes.

Our society seems to be glued to their smart phones.  People take them everywhere.  We were at a large sporting event a couple weeks ago, and 90% of the people sitting around us were on their phones, scrolling Facebook/Twitter, for a very large majority of the game.  I wanted to tell them that the statuses would still be there in two hours, they weren't missing anything earth shattering.  With what we paid for tickets, I was going to enjoy the game, not stare at my phone.  Plus, real life action is so much more exciting than reading that someone ate potato chips for dinner.  Today, I saw someone driving down the highway at 60 mph, both hands off the wheel, texting, head completely down.  Seriously?  She had no idea what was on the road in front of her.  I don't know how she was staying on the road, since she wasn't even looking at it. I prayed for those in her route to be safe.  I was thankful I was on a side road.  If your text can't wait until you get home, then pull off the road , stop your car, THEN text.  Other things I wonder about: Why do people go out to dinner and then spend the entire time on their phone?  Why do kids have to sit and stare at their parents, trying everything to get them to talk to them, while the parents spend their whole time staring at their phone?  I even observed an older teen and dad the other day in that situation.  The kid had her phone away, the dad did not.  The daughter tried to talk to her dad and dad just did the occasional uh huh until the daughter just got really frustrated and stopped trying.  Another time, a mom was with her four kids, all trying to talk with her about their day at school, but all she did was scroll Facebook and Instagram, and text, while her kids kept trying to tell her about their day.  Sad.  When you are with people, be with them.  Listen.  Engage.  Talk.  Care.  Put the phone away.  Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and all other social media will still be there!!  What is more important, real face to face relationships or reading posts that don't even affect your life? Yes, I have accounts on Facebook and Pinterest, and on a business level I have Twitter, as well.  The past few months I have taken a step back from Facebook, and even took two weeks of not being on it at all on a personal level.  Honestly, for the most part, I didn't miss it.  When I did go back, I cut quite a few from my list, and I am now only on occasionally.  I didn't miss the drama, all the off hand remarks people make to one another and think it is ok, & the horrible profanity that has become a part of every day social media posts.  It seems the more we have to know about others lives on social media, (or snoop or spy, whatever you want to call it,) the less we want to have real, meaningful relationships.  We rush to read so and so's status update, but don't call them to check on them, don't meet with them in person to have a real conversation, we don't show in a real, tangible way that we care, and it is showing in our society in a a very real way by how people treat one another.  People seem to forget that we are all human beings, created by God, and we are supposed to care for and about one another.

Anyway, back to my original paragraph......  My hubby and I have decided to make our time together at night a no phone/tablet/computer zone.  The phone can be used to make or receive calls, yes they still do that, but that is all, except for when we are studying different Bible versions on the Youversion  Bible app we have because it has versions we do not have in our home that we sometimes use when diving into our study.  But, other than those two things, everything else is off limits.  It's time to focus on having real conversations with others, to really live life, and grab the time we have here, not waste it.  Life is short.  We weren't given this life to spend hours on social media or staring at a screen.  Think of what you could have done with your spouse, your kids, your friends, your church, your community in the time you spent in front of a screen just since the new year.  Could you have talked more..played more..  cared more..loved more..taught more?  Could you have done something to improve your health, instead of making it worse by sitting in front of a screen?  Could you have gone outside and enjoyed the beauty that surrounds you?  Could you have touched a life and made a difference in a hurting heart?  We need to make a positive difference in the corner of the world we were put in, to be hands and feet that make a difference. Will you step up with me, and put the computer/phone away for ______ hours a day, except to use your phone as a phone, and live life?   I dare you to give it a try this month, and get out and experience life, as it was meant to be lived.